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LesbianAlliance.com interviews DeepStealth's Andrea James

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by Lesley Roberts
February 6, 2004

This particular V-Day event will showcase some notable transwomen, including Calpernia Addams and Andrea James (pictured together below) who have worked very hard to make this happen. Not only will this event help to create awareness of violence against women; it will also give the transgendered community an opportunity to have a voice. We’re so proud and excited for them that we wanted to learn more about how this project came into existence. The following is an interview between Ms. Andrea James and LesbianAlliance.com:

What was your very first experience/ impression of Eve Ensler’s “The Vagina Monologues”?
I actually saw the HBO production of Eve’s performance after meeting Eve at V-Day LA 2003, which was a preview screening of Eve’s documentary “Until the Violence Stops.” That film is simply awe-inspiring. The play itself is a remarkable statement, but to take it from an underground sensation to a worldwide movement showed a kind of vision few people have.

When was the idea for this particular production conceived?
Jane Fonda suggested it when my business partner Calpernia Addams and I met her at Sundance in 2003 for the premiere of “Soldier’s Girl.”

Until recently, “The Vagina Monologues” was centered only around women-born women. How does this progression affect our community?
“Women-born-women” is a very loaded term. One of the major reasons Calpernia and I wanted to get involved in this is because we face the same violence any women face, and in certain ways that violence is because we are seen as less than women, even less than human. We are very interested in building bridges to those who in the past had concerns about what gender variance meant to their worldview.

How far evolved is the transgender community compared to the rest of the GLBT community?
The transgender community is still finding its voice, but it seems to be at an interesting crossroads where the separatism that marked the early political efforts is now being complemented with those of us who have a post-separatist mindset. Both are important facets of any rights movement.

What message is singular to this production that you hope to convey?
Our goal is to raise awareness about two critical issues: The first is the unreported epidemic of violence that engulfs our youngest and most vulnerable. Gwen Smith maintains a Remembering our Dead website at rememberingourdead.org, which lists hundred of transpeople killed due to anti-trans sentiment. We are using this event to bring attention to this issue, since it’s likely we have one of the highest murder rates per capita of any demographic group.

Our second goal is to counter the dismal depiction of our community in the media, which is directly related to the violence. Because we are primarily portrayed as prostitutes, punchlines, and psychopaths, it creates a climate of fear and hatred. What never gets reported are the thousands of transwomen living quiet productive lives in every profession and occupation. Professor Lynn Conway, a world-renowned electrical engineer, has put together a remarkable collection of accomplished women on her site at lynnconway.com

Calpernia and I have amazing media connections through Deep Stealth Productions and through GenderMedia Foundation, and we wanted to put that to work in publicizing the hard work being done by Gwen and Lynn.

The epistemology of the vagina is perhaps the very essence of femininity and womanhood. Likewise, “The Vagina Monologues” is a documentary and celebration of that womanhood. What is it like to be a part of this esteemed explanation of women?
In my own case I was surprised how much having a vagina has changed how I feel about myself. I considered myself a victim of “testosterone poisoning” for many years, and I feel much more calm and clear-headed now.

Personally, I have always loved women and feminine beauty. Calpernia asked me to read Eve’s monologue “The Woman Who Liked To Make Vaginas Happy” as a nod to that. Although I have always loved women, I enjoy that love even more living as a woman myself.

What is the best part and what is the most challenging aspect about being a cast member in the “Vagina Monologues”?
Our cast is coming in from all over the country, which is an amazing testament to the importance of this event, but that has also made it quite a challenge for Calpernia, who is directing in addition to performing two new monologues: one she wrote herself, and one Eve wrote just for the event.

As a born woman and feminist, I am aware of the advantages of being a woman but as a transgender woman you perhaps have the greatest understanding of what it is to be a woman. What is it to be a woman?
It’s hand or shoulder, to smile at people if you wish. It is my personal opinion that the male social role is very rigid and confining, so much so that I believe it is part of the reason some men express themselves with violence. It’s sadly one of the few “acceptable” ways for males to respond.

What have been among the hardest obstacles to overcome in being a transgender woman?
The level of misunderstanding about women in our community is profound. It can be very frustrating for me at times, since I have decided to work at changing those perceptions. The notion that we are some monolithic group is another problem. We are the very essence of diversity.

In a world full of curious people, we are asked the most funny and ridiculous questions with such obvious answers. For instance, my girlfriend and I are often asked who is the man and who is the woman in our relationship. Although I laugh at the absurdity of this question, sometimes I feel like wearing a t-shirt that says, “Answer: there’s no man in the relationship.” Is there a similar question that you are often asked?
What was your old name?” That’s always annoying.

What else do you want the world to know?
Well, that answer would take too long to write in its entirety, so I will just say this: the boundaries between the two nations of “Male” and “Female” are as arbitrary as the boundary between any two nations. There might be some physical landmarks that were used to draw the boundaries, but that doesn’t make the decision to use those landmarks any less arbitrary.

Thank you for this chance to talk about our part in this worldwide V-Day movement! We encourage everyone to get involved, since violence takes many forms and must be stopped within the context of the community in which it is happening. That means all if us have to stop violence wherever we find it. The day that happens is the day V-World becomes a reality!

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http://www.lesbianalliance.com/content.cfm?cat=entertainment&sub=events&file=interview

Advocate Op-Ed: Transformations

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by Calpernia Addams and Andrea James

July 22, 2003

We two have come together to create change from very different backgrounds. Many people became aware of Calpernia’s story when her boyfriend, Barry Winchell, was murdered by fellow soldiers in Kentucky in 1999, following months of harassment about his sexuality. In the face of this devastating loss, the media made things worse for Calpernia with insensitive coverage, reducing her relationship with Barry to “friend” status and completely discounting her identity as a woman.

The Showtime film Soldier’s Girl helped correct that. Most trans women in film and on television are portrayed as prostitutes, punch lines, or psychos. But in the hands of writer Ron Nyswaner (Philadelphia) and director Frank Pierson (a Star Is Born), Calpernia’s story became one of filmmaking’s most realistic and positive portrayals of a transgendered woman’s romantic relationship.

While Calpernia worked to side-step show-business pitfalls as a Nashville entertainer, Andrea made her transition under different circumstances. With family support and an established corporate career, she was able to make the change on the job in a progressive workplace. She also had the income needed to pay all the costs that make transition so challenging-and so rife with consumer fraud. Andrea’s job in advertising had taught her how to fight such fraud, so she decided to share her knowledge through her Web site, with hundreds of pages of free information on setting realistic goals and making informed purchasing decisions. (She spun off the section on hair removal into one of the Web’s most popular free consumer sites on the subject.)

The two of us met shortly after Barry’s death, and we saw an opportunity to work together to make transitioning easier for others and to get the trans perspective heard in the media. Between us, we have experience in print, theater, film, and TV. This year we moved to Los Angeles to start Deep Stealth Productions-the name is a wink to a slang term used by some in our community to mean “living without question or discovery in one’s chosen gender identity.”

We have been anything but deep stealth: The enormous response to Soldier’s Girl has allowed us to share with people what an incredible man Barry was and to have people see Calpernia as a regular woman with her own business, goals, and aspirations. Young transgendered women coming up through the club scene have heard the message that they are not condemned to the gender ghetto. Any of us can make a difference.

There’s work to do. For example: J. Michael Bailey, a professor who claims to be a friend of our community, has just put out a very defamatory book. In The Man Who Would Be Queen, he links transsexual women to The Silence of the Lambs and notes that we work as “strippers and prostitutes, as well as in many other occupations.” Because we believe in fighting unjust media depictions wherever we find them, we took time from our other projects to address and counter this insidious book.

One countertactic is writing our own stories in our own words. Calpernia has just published her autobiography, Mark 947, chronicling her strict religious upbringing, her time in the U.S. Navy, and her rise to fame in Nashville’s club scene. It’s the inspirational back story to Soldier’s Girl. We are also developing a short film with the working title The Voice Lesson–the story of women in our community finding their voices, both literally and figuratively.

We are especially excited about our next project: producing and performing in a transgender-themed production of Eve Ensler’s The Vagina Monologues for early 2004. With Eve writing a new monologue just for the production, this is a wonderful chance to strengthen the connection between trans women and non-trans women in a project that benefits Eve’s global anti-violence effort, V-Day. Gender issues including stopping violence against, all women–are everyone’s issues.

We know that change comes from within, even when it seems impossible to others. How we respond to the challenges we face daily shapes the direction of our lives. Once we each realize how much we can change ourselves, changing the world is easy.

Find links to Deep Stealth and the other sites mentioned here at www.advocate.com

https://books.google.com/books?id=SmUEAAAAMBAJ&pg=PA12

Listen: GenderTalk #413, June 9, 2003

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hosted by  Nancy Nangeroni & Gordene O. MacKenzie

A former advertising writer and consumer activist turned online transgender activist, Andrea James is a tireless crusader for the transgender community, creating free websites with hundreds of pages of content. We talk with Andrea about her online activism, and in particular about the response to Michael Bailey’s book that has angered nearly a whole community.

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Transgender Vagina Monologues is a go!

 

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We just got back from finalizing plans to do an all-transgender benefit performance of The Vagina Monologues in LA in February 2014, as part of V-Day!

Review: Soldier’s Girl

I can’t write an objective review of this film, I’m afraid. I’m too close to too many people involved with this film.

As many of you know, it’s a dramatic retelling of a romance between one of my best friends, Calpernia Addams, and a young Army private named Barry Winchell. It’s a love story, with fire, and flare, and passion, and tenderness, and in the end, a hatred that explodes into the most unspeakable violence. This film doesn’t shy away from any of it, either.

I’ll talk briefly about my overall take on the film. I first saw it in a packed hall at the Sundance Film Festival in January. I had just helped Calpernia finish proofing the galleys of her autobiography Mark 947, so I thought I was pretty well-prepared for the story I would see in the film. I was not.

I sat next to Calpernia, and to be honest, I’m not sure I could have sat through it if I were she. Imagine what it would be like to see yourself portrayed on screen, in an intimate way, with someone you cared for deeply, someone who was taken away from you by murderous bigots…it was a heartwrenching night, to watch this film surrounded by those closest to the events portrayed and the artists who worked to tell their stories with insight and honor. I felt I couldn’t do enough to be there for Calpernia that night. There was something very cathartic about it all, though, as the entire audience stood applauding at the end and joined in supporting her and in being there for her emotionally. I tend to be a pretty tough sell on emotional things, but seeing such an outpouring of support from people who were truly moved by this rare humanized portrayal of transgenderism got me glassy-eyed.

The film was directed by the legendary Frank Pierson, who was not afraid to show either the sexuality between the couple, or Barry’s violent death. Screenwriter Ron Nyswaner, who also wrote Philadelphia, crafted a marvelous love story, and managed to discuss transgender themes with panache and sensitivity, and without getting too lurid. If you ask me, the best-written part in the film is the villain, Justin Fisher, who is complicated and calculating as the jealous and unstable roommate who goads another soldier into killing Barry. Shawn Hatosy does an incredible job bringing this Iago character to life. 

A number of other artists took chances in this film, notably Troy Garity, who plays Barry. Troy plays Barry as a little slow and a little sweet, but over time, Troy conveyed a marvelous sense of how much complication there really is in a seemingly uncomplicated man like Barry. The love scenes exude real passion, and I am sure they will cause a lot of viewers to be uncomfortable because they are so challenging to conventional ideas of sexuality. There is a scene in Calpernia’s house, where Barry breaks down, saying he just wants to be happy. Troy’s performance in this scene is one of the most real and heartfelt expressions of emotion I’ve seen in a film in years. It’s refreshing to have an actor of his caliber take a role this challenging and controversial, without worrying what it will do to his career. I get the feeling Troy’s just getting started.

I suppose that my greatest disappointment in the film is the portrayal of Calpernia herself. Trying to see it objectively as a story, her character is the least nuanced of the three main characters. And as wonderfully as I feel the part was played by newcomer Lee Pace, this was once again another film where a transgender woman was played by a non-transgender man. This is not to slam Lee, who is especially good at capturing the pain and pathos of someone in the midst of a gender transformation. This film was important to make, but the fact that roles like these still go to actors outside the transgender community shows how far we still have to go. Those who know Calpernia know that she is quite lovely and soft-spoken. At the time the story occurred, she was still in the midst of things, but anyone who sees this portrayal and then sees the Calpernia I know will probably feel that this is a misrepresentation. Perhaps it’s good in a way, since it makes the film that much more challenging.

There are fascinating parallels between the straight drag of the military and the gay drag of the club where Calpernia performed. I wish more of that duality had been played up, but I am glad they spent a lot of time with the two characters away from their ridiculously gendered workplaces, having good, clean fun at cookouts, in the park, in bed…That is the true triumph of this film: a normalized relationship with the perfect combination of lust and love.

The climactic scenes are simply staggering, and I’ll leave it at that. Some critics thought that the writer had taken creative license, and that Barry was not killed over 4th of July weekend on the very night Calpernia won Miss Tennessee Entertainer of the Year. Sometimes the truth is more dramatic than any plot twist, because that’s exactly what happened. At any rate, this part of the film is an extraordinarily effective piece of storytelling, played out to Annie Lennox’s “Cold.”

In the aftermath of this tragedy, many people have rallied to make changes in military policy, notably the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, who continue to fight for GLBT rights in the military. I have also had the honor of meeting Barry’s mom and stepdad. To this day, they continue to fight for justice on behalf of their son and everyone else harmed by the “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy. Just this month, they have been able to help postpone the promotion of Major General Robert T. Clark, who was in charge of the base at the time Barry was murdered, and they continue to travel around the country speaking at VFW halls or wherever anyone will listen to their message of tolerance. When I think of American heroes I’ve had the honor of knowing, Pat and Wally Kutteles are right up there.

Beyond the important message this film carries, the process has opened doors to getting other stories with gender themes told. We have had a chance to spend time with the writer, the director, the producers, and the actors. We have been to their homes and vice versa, and we’ve had some very encouraging discussions about what else can be done. The film and the amazing artists involved have spurred Calpernia and me to work to improve media depictions of transgender people, and to try to get transgender stories told in our own words. The momentum is on the side of our community, and we will keep you posted as we move forward.

I hope you’ll all consider sending Calpernia a note or stopping by her bulletin board to thank her for being such an eloquent spokeswoman in the face of this tragedy. She’s been through a harrowing ordeal in the last few years, and she dealt with it all far better than I could have. I am very proud to know her.

Soldier’s Girl premieres on Showtime on Saturday May 31. Check your local listings for times. 

See also:

Pre-order now (Release is 27 January 2004

Calpernia’s page on Soldier’s Girl

Showtime page on Soldier’s Girl

May 2003 Advocate article

Removal methods give hair-raising lesson in pain

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by Judie Schwartz & Evelinda Urman
September 12, 2002
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If this problem is your problem, don’t spend another cent until you visit www.hairfacts.com. Andrea James has put together the web’s definitive consumer resource for hair removal products and services.

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